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Alone on Mother’s Day but Not Lonely.

 A Mother’s Day Celebration for One:

Honouring Yourself with Joy and Grace

Mother’s Day isn’t only for moms with kids or people with perfect relationships. It can be a beautiful opportunity to turn inward and celebrate the woman you are—the one who’s nurtured others, held things together, built a life with care, and still shows up, day after day.

If this year finds you spending Mother’s Day solo, consider it a chance to slow down and enjoy a day that’s entirely yours. No guilt. No pressure. Just peace, pleasure, and a few small luxuries that remind you of your worth. Sounds so lovely doesn’t it? Steve will be golfing on Sunday so I will be joining all you solo ladies heeding my own advice in the afternoon…not gonna lie…I’m looking forward to it 😉

 

Start with a Beautiful Breakfast

Forget quick bites or skipping meals. Today, breakfast is an experience. Set your table—even if it’s just for one—with a pretty plate, a cloth napkin, and something delicious. Think mini quiche, sausage, croissant and fresh fruit. Add your favorite coffee or a pot of herbal tea. Eat slowly. Sip. Breathe. This morning is yours.

 

Soak It All In

Next up: the bath. This isn’t your usual five-minute rinse. Run a tub with bath salts, bubbles, or a few drops of essential oil. Light a candle. Bring a book or just lean back with your eyes closed. It’s about soaking in quiet, comfort, and the feeling that you’re allowed to rest.

Play Your Life’s Soundtrack

Whether it’s Norah Jones, Joni Mitchell, Ella Fitzgerald, or that playlist you always forget to play—today’s soundtrack is soft, nostalgic, and just for you. Let music fill the room as you move through your morning, setting the tone for a light, lovely day. I included a great soundtrack I made especially for you. 💕

Cue the Chick Flick

Put on something that makes you feel good. Pyjamas, a cozy robe, or your favourite, comfy, hanging-around-the-house- attire. Then grab a blanket, settle in, and watch a movie that never fails to lift your spirits. A few feel-good favorites: Under the Tuscan Sun, The Holiday, Julie & Julia, or Mamma Mia! Let yourself laugh, cry, or both—it’s all part of the charm. I didn’t even know there was a movie called Mother’s Day until I was googling this.  lol. It is now on my radar to watch myself on Mother’s Day. 😊

Treat Yourself to Afternoon Tea

In the afternoon, bring out the tea and treats. A pot of Earl Grey, lemon balm, or something floral. Maybe a slice of cake, a few cookies, or even some berries and cream. Set it up in your favorite sunny spot, grab a book or journal, and lean into the quiet joy of your own company.

Journal Prompts to Reflect and Recharge

If the mood strikes, write it out. Here are a few gentle prompts to explore:

  1. What do I want to remember about today and the way it made me feel?
  2. How have I nurtured others—and myself—this year?
  3. What can I do to remind myself that I am a super, amazing, fun, person 😉?

You Deserve This Day

This isn’t about pretending you’re not alone—it’s about realizing you’re not lonely. There’s a big difference. Spending Mother’s Day solo isn’t second best. It’s an invitation to honour the care you give to the world, and to give a little of it back to yourself. Sounds so lovely doesn’t it?

Because, truly—you’re worth celebrating.

Mother’s Day Playlist: A Celebration of You

1. “Feeling Good” – Michael Buble

The ultimate anthem for a fresh start and inner strength.

2. “Bloom” – The Paper Kites

Gentle and grounding, perfect for a peaceful morning.

3. “Let It Be Me” – Ray LaMontagne

A tender, soul-soothing song for slow moments.

4. “It’s a Beautiful Day” – U2

A subtle burst of joy—let it play while you’re dancing in your robe.

5. “Rise Up” – Andra Day

Uplifting and powerful without being overpowering.

6. “Bubbly” – Colbie Caillat

Lighthearted, easy, and perfect for the bath or a tea break.

7. “Landslide” – Fleetwood Mac

Reflective and honest—let it move you.

8. “Sunday Kind of Love” – Etta James

Vintage warmth for a self-love kind of Sunday.

9. “Come Away With Me” – Norah Jones

Smooth, sweet, and perfect background music.

10. “Wildflowers” – Tom Petty

A simple reminder to let yourself be free and flourish.

11. “Ain’t no Mountain High Enough” Marvin Gaye

Inspired by a walk through Central Park in Manhattan.

12. “This Will Be (An Everlasting Love)” – Natalie Cole

A fun, upbeat way to wrap up your day with a smile.

Have a most beautiful day 💕

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18 Comments

  • Reply
    Rita
    May 7, 2025 at 7:35 AM

    These words….. “You Deserve This Day

    This isn’t about pretending you’re not alone—it’s about realizing you’re not lonely. There’s a big difference. Spending Mother’s Day solo isn’t second best. It’s an invitation to honour the care you give to the world, and to give a little of it back to yourself. Sounds so lovely doesn’t it?” It DOES sound lovely and what a beautiful reminder to love yourself 💕 thank you for this post. It came at the perfect time.

    • Reply
      Marion
      May 7, 2025 at 12:31 PM

      I am so happy to read that this came at a good time for you Rita.
      Enjoy your special day.
      Happy Mother’s Day.

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    Kelley
    May 7, 2025 at 7:37 AM

    Perfect post. I needed to read this, this year.
    Thank you.

    • Reply
      Marion
      May 7, 2025 at 12:30 PM

      I am so happy this came at a good time for you Kelley.
      Happy Mother’s Day.

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    Mary
    May 7, 2025 at 7:38 AM

    I love “sip, breathe’ the morning is yours’. I want to use that EVERY morning.

    • Reply
      Marion
      May 7, 2025 at 12:30 PM

      Thanks Mary. It would be a great habit to start our days ‘sipping, breathing’ and feeling gratitude for the day ahead.
      Happy Mother’s Day.

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    Meg
    May 7, 2025 at 7:42 AM

    After so many years being alone I seem to get through holidays just fine, but when it comes to Mother’s Day I sometimes wonder if I have done something wrong in life. I don’t seem to be as important to my children as I once was. 😔 This is a very pretty post with such wonderful ideas. Thanks

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      Marion
      May 7, 2025 at 12:29 PM

      I think we all feel that sometimes Meg. You are not alone 💕 Our kids seem to be busier and busier. Were we that busy? LOL
      I wish you the loveliest of Mother’s Day. enjoy some time doing something for yourself.
      🥰

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    Lottie
    May 7, 2025 at 7:43 AM

    Bang on for all the single ladies Marion. Happy Mother’s Day.

    • Reply
      Marion
      May 7, 2025 at 12:26 PM

      Thanks Lottie.
      Happy Mother’s Day.

  • Reply
    Fran
    May 7, 2025 at 7:45 AM

    Is it terrible that I want to be alone this year? Lol. You make it sound perfect. Haha. I will no doubt have my kids and grandkids here visiting and will be at everyone’s beck and call. The bath sounds so much more inviting.

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      Marion
      May 7, 2025 at 12:26 PM

      HAHA…not at all!! It’s always fun having the visits but it is nice when you get your home back to yourself to enjoy the peace and quiet!! 😂
      Happy Mother’s Day.

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    Jackie
    May 7, 2025 at 7:46 AM

    Great post Savvy Snowbird.

    • Reply
      Marion
      May 7, 2025 at 12:25 PM

      Thank you so much Jackie.
      Happy Mother’s Day.

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    Mary Lynn
    May 7, 2025 at 9:41 AM

    Sounds perfect 💗

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      Marion
      May 7, 2025 at 12:25 PM

      Right ML? Plus the upside is the house does’t get turned upside down with all the kids lol
      Xo
      Happy Mother’s Day. 💕

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    Anne McRorie
    May 7, 2025 at 10:22 AM

    A few years I had brunch at my house for my Mom- siblings were there and my son. After the brunch my son, and brother and husband were going golfing but were worried about me being alone for the rest of the day! Hilarious – they all left and I wandered around the mall and stopped and had a coffee then went home and sat outside reading until after dinner time. One of the best Mother’s Days I have had!!

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      Marion
      May 7, 2025 at 12:23 PM

      HA HA…I can picture you doing that Anne!! Sounds perfect. It was nice they showed concern for you though lol
      Happy Mother’s Day. I will think of your mom this year 💕

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